Real Estate Investing is Just Like
Weight Loss...
from legalwiz.com
It amazes me how many people get started in real estate investing,
only to fail when the going gets tough. As soon as someone
discovers they can’t get rich in a week or two, they
are on to the next “hidden guru” secret. It’s
the same as weight loss - everyone talks about it, many try
it, but few succeed. There are thousands of “get rich
quick” and “get slim quick” gimmicks. No
wonder both the real estate investing information and weight
loss products industries make BILLIONS!
Weight loss isn’t easy… ask anyone who
has tried it. However, the concept of weight loss
is very basic - burn more calories than you ingest and your
body will react accordingly. Unless you have a medical disorder,
this formula works for just about anyone. Simple as it may
be, the formula is HARD, meaning it takes a lot of DISCIPLINE
AND HARD WORK. So, the weight loss industry has offered us
thousands of ways to make it easier. Many of these solutions
do work, but they only work if you put forth effort.
Now, let’s start with the premise
you don’t need any of these “solutions”
to make real estate OR weight loss work for you. You can eat
less calories, go walking or jogging every day and you will
lose weight. But, having knowledge of the caloric content
of different foods is relevant. Also, for many people, knowing
the carbohydrate content is relevant. Having the advice of
a physician, dietician and personal trainer will help you
prevent injuries and maximum your effort.
Same principle applies to real estate -
you can go out and make hundreds of offers to motivated sellers
and find a good deal. However, having information about how
to solve the seller’s needs and construct an offer will
help. Having an attorney, real estate agent or “guru”
to assist you with constructing the offer and the paperwork
will make it easier. Having advice from other people who have
already done hundreds of deals will also make it easier for
you to learn from other people’s success (and failures).
However, whether it’s weight loss or real estate, the
bottom line is not just knowing, but DOING. You can’t
blame the diet if you don’t stick to it. Many people
have successfully lost weight using the ZONE, WEIGHT WATCHERS,
ATKINS and other similar plans. Many people have succeeded
with the famous “guru” plans, but many have failed,
likely because they didn’t give the required effort,
NOT because the plan isn’t effective.
Both real estate investing business and weight loss are simple,
but neither is easy. It takes a lot of work. Having a proven
“system” or plan helps, but only if you stick
to it. If the diet plan says, “exercise 3x times per
week”, you can’t be sloppy about it and expect
results. It’s like the people reading a book on the
treadmill at the gym - if you can read a book, you’re
not working HARD ENOUGH. Likewise, people call newspaper ads
and say “hey, you wouldn’t want to sell me your
house cheap, would you?” This is not DOING it is TRYING.
You have to give 100% to a particular plan or formula before
you say, “this stuff doesn’t work.”
Many people who are interested in weight loss join a gym
or hire a personal trainer. From personal experience, I can
say that both are great for weight loss. But, the weeks I
didn’t show up, it was a BIG WASTE OF MONEY! The same
thing goes for a real estate training system or mentor program
- if you don’t put forth any effort, it won’t
work! And, of course, you’ll likely get bitter about
all the money you spent and blame the guru. After all, it
can’t be YOUR fault!
That brings us to another topic - the “scam”
side of the real estate and weight loss business. Sure, the
“magic pills” that melt off fat are probably a
scam. These snake oil salesman are offering the lazy and desperate
people a solution - no work and results. Hah! If you bought
into this scam you deserve to be parted from your money. Likewise,
any real estate guru who promises riches with no work is also
a scam. My favorite promise is “no selling involved”
- that’s the biggest lie ever told. No business can
be successful without a certain amount of selling of their
product or service to customers - period! So, while there
is a dark side to the weight loss and real estate investing
information businesses, I assert that most people fail at
both because of their own lack of action, not the fault of
the “systems.” If you aren’t willing to
work, another weight loss program or real estate seminar won’t
get you any more results than you are currently getting -
save your money and take MORE CONSISTENT ACTION with what
you are currently doing.
However, if you are willing to work hard and take a lot of
consistent action, a guru or program will likely give you
more results. If you bought a book, course or program and
already have results, another program, course or book will
likely give you tools to get MORE RESULTS. I often hear about
successes people have with my real estate programs, but a
lot of them are not FIRST TIME successes. They are most often
people who have already been successful, and, using my tools,
became MORE successful. If someone asks me whether my program
will make them successful, I ask, “what other programs
have you bought?” If they have already spend thousands
on other programs and have done NOTHING, I discourage them
from buying mine. These people are looking for the elusive
“holy grail” that all the other programs left
out. More than likely, the missing element is lack of action
on their part.
If you aren’t willing to take action on a massive scale,
you won’t get more results by buying more products.
If you have the discipline to work hard and take consistent
action, then products and services will help you get there
faster. Whether you are looking to get rich or lose weight,
the bottom line is YOU!
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